Z E T A
Jan 16, 20235 min
Hellooooo my babes.
Jan 16. 2023!
My besties birthday 🕊
Is Jan moving fast or?
Here I go again.
LOL!
ZC NATION.
Listen.
I generally do not like speaking on others & their situations.
Why?
Because I’m in the public eye myself & I know what it feels like (on a much smaller scale than the couple we’ll be discussing) for others to have opinions on what they don’t really know.
It’s a lot.
It’s just A LOT!
However I feel like bc I’m sensitive to what they may be going through I can share my empathetic thoughts.
Right?
*Me with one eye open*
😅
Plus after being asked by friends & a few fellow CONFIDENTIAL family members regarding my thoughts on Harry & Meghan, I thought…
Why not blog about it?
But I am not Wendy Williams in hot topics guys.
LMAO.
Meaning I’m not sure I want to make a habit out of blogging my opinion on other celebrities lives.
However...
Of course I have a few thoughts.
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So who better to share those thoughts with than ZC NATION.
I’m also obsessed with hearing your thoughts on things so I felt this was a fun blog topic to welcome to this platform as it's such a hot topic with such loaded opinions globally.
What do I think of Meghan?
I like Meghan.
You know?
I hear the opinions others have of her & at times can understand where they're coming from.
Even when it comes to her & the subject of ppl feeling she didn't claim her blackness until it "benefited" her etc.
I'm not sure how I feel about that per se.
Bc if you're black, you're black.
But...
I simply couldn’t imagine myself having an issue with her.
Or anyone else I’ve never met in person for that matter.
I believe she’s class.
& I like who she is to Harry.
I do believe however that she was a bit naive going into the Royal Family without a clue of the history of the monarchy.
I remember her mentioning in their new Netflix documentary with Harry that she didn’t know she was meant to curtsy upon meeting the Queen & that there were no classes that taught that sort of thing.
For me I feel like that’s the least & most basic thing to sort out prior to meeting the Queen.
This alone shows how ill prepared she was.
I feel she could’ve asked Harry these things & that he would’ve loved to help her become much more acquainted with the protocol.
I FULLY understand that her love for Harry was her sole motivating force for agreeing to take on a family as unique as the royal family but I feel like Meghan should have done a bit more research.
It may have better prepared her for what she went through after marrying Harry.
Don't get me wrong...
No one is ever prepared for what she has stated she went through.
Ie. Severe Depression, suicidal thoughts etc
But I feel she could’ve been a tad bit more spiritually armed for it.
That’s life though right?
We can’t always do everything right.
& in my opinion everything has happened the way it was meant to happen.
All of Meghan’s “flaws” or “mistakes” have paved the way for a lot which has been "under the rug" to be exposed.
Which brings me to Harry of course.
What do I think of Harry?
Personally,
I think Harry is a stand up guy.
I respect him for honouring his wife & his family despite how difficult I’m SURE it has been to do so due to the consequences.
I know there are many others who don’t feel this way & believe that he has done his family wrong.
But the good book even validates his actions.
Genesis 2:25
God’s word says that a man and a woman are to be joined together, forsaking all others, including family.
Ephesians 5:21-33
“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”
I feel it is a dream to have a husband who fulfills this promise to God & to his wife.
Thoughts on “SPARE”
Harry’s new book “Spare” I feel is well warranted.
Every single human being on this planet has a right to tell their story.
Whether people like it or not.
I couldn’t imagine wanting to mute someone.
Your story is going to include others.
And those others are not always going to like what is being said about them.
But they too have the right to tell their own story.
That is what I believe.
I will forever stand by that belief.
Additionally..
I find it extremely Nobel that Harry will be donating the proceeds from Spare to charities dear to him.
At that point I truly don’t give a donkeys a$$ what anyone else thinks about his decision to expose certain family truths all in the name of protecting his own family the way he wishes one would’ve protected his mum… the late Princess Diana.
Harry has stated that he tried to handle the problems listed in Spare with the royal family many times privately but to no avail.
I really don’t know what else naysayers expect him to do after that.
Life with the Royal family was clearly not healthy for him or his wife Meghan.
I can’t imagine having any other opinion than…
“Do what’s best for you, your mental health & your safety”
In this scenario.
Overall
Overall…
I believe there is beauty in & a deep necessity for tradition & history.
But there’s also a necessity to evolve.
If we do not evolve, we die.
We cannot keep everything the way it once was.
I believe the Royal family does not want to conform to evolution & what it may entail at ANY capacity.
The same way Harry believes Meghan saved him.
I too believe she was a saviour for him.
I believe she’s carrying the weight that making a change in exposing truths which need to be exposed carry.
& that’s not an easy role to take on.
What’s done in the dark will always come to light.
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It deserves to.
The way Harry supports Meghan is an exact depiction of what I want my husband to be like.
Maybe I want even more.
But certainly nothing less.
Soooo ZC NATION.
Few questions for YOU:
•Do you have thoughts on Meghan, Harry or his new book "Spare"?
•Did you agree with their decision to exit the monarchy?
•Would YOU marry into a royal family?
Don't be afraid for your opinion to differ from mine.
I always welcome other perspectives.
& I'm simply quite curious.
Coming up next week on ZC!
We have a guest blogger 😍
You'll get to see what that looks like when it drops.
Ps:
Does a CONFIDENTIAL phone case sound good to you?
Also...
Ps:
I really really really enjoyed reading all of your feedback & goals on last weeks blog... "The Dirty 30 Stigma: My 30 by 30"
One of my favs (in commentary) to read thus far, I think.
Nonetheless...
I'll see you next week family.
There's really a lot to come in the coming weeks.
So stay tuned.
I love you SO much 🖤
Confidentially,
Baby Z