THE THINGS I DON’T ADDRESS… PUBLICY!

THIS GENERATION & ITS WARPED PERCEPTION OF SUCCESS.

My babes!!! 🤍🤍🤍

Right.

This blog post actually started out on a completely different note with a completely different title this past week, but I changed it JUST last night & began to write you this.

I’ll definitely release what was meant to be todays reads next week but for now…

You lot are gonna get these emotions in REAL TIME!

Lol.

Which is how it should be!

You guys…

Ugh.

This really is my notebook that I just so happen to share with you.

I contemplate even saying so much at times bc sometimes your thoughts are simply safer with you.

Bc what’s putting it out there really going to do but bring more attention to the situation at hand.

You know?

But Fuxk it.

This is ZC NATION.

That’s what this place is all about.

No one on this platform is here to do anything but understand, support, champion & encourage me/each other & give/ receive the BEST advise.

Bc PS:

*A lot of you give such good at advice on this platform*

I built my relationship with all of you from day dot on truth & vulnerability.

And that’s how I’m going to keep it.

But ooops!

Come to realize…

I’ve not even properly greeted ZC NATION on this fine Monday.

This shows you how ready I am to get straight to the fact of the matter.

The point.

The reason.

The WHAT!

The “Ahhhhhhh right… I hear you Z”  💡

You know?

Hahaha.

But before all that let me just say…

HAPPY FUXKING MONDAY FAMILY 🗣☺️

SO WHAT AM I ON ABOUT?

Well…

Lol!

This week & every other week really, I have been compared to other couples that have come out of Love Island & other reality shows etc

So I’m on about the fact that personally I am fineee, but I’ve just really realized that…

Exactly.

The pressure is getting worser!

🤣🤣🤣

Love this clip!

And yes I got it from Will Njobvu.

But before I digress…

Yeah mate.

The pressure is getting worser!

And not just for ME…

For the world 🌍

So it dawned on me that I needed to blog about this after I had such an “AHA moment”, as Oprah would call it.

Let me just start by saying…

I FULLY understand peoples wants for me to make money & be brought on by other peoples brands.

That want is coming from nowhere but a sincere & heart felt place.

And I thoroughly appreciate that.

HOWEVER…

There is a larger topic at hand here.

And that is regarding the disillusionment between what’s real & what’s fake these days/what is actually going on behind closed doors.

These days it seems as though people only care about what things LOOK like & not what they actually ARE.

I personally only care about what things actually ARE.

Bc that then translates to what others not only see… but feel in their souls as well.

The real deal.

Where I believe it actually counts.

I think with time people will begin to realize that

I typically do not move how the majority moves 😩

I never have.

I’ve always been one to march to the beat of my own drum 🥁

And I’ve been cut from a different fabric for ages.

Therefore I’ve never been over stimulated by what peoples lives may SEEM like online.

Why?

Bc I’ve seen & been around a whole lot in my life.

I’ve mingled with the rich & famous & seen how miserable some of them actually were.

Alike, I’ve mingled with those completely out of the public eye who know true peace & are some of the happiest most fulfilled humans I’ve ever encountered.

And aside of just those two perspectives, I’ve mingled with those who are actually living the life they choose to share.

Be that fancy or not.

So my goal for years has always just been to be truly happy!!!

And to work hard in silence.

Due to this I do not post about every little thing I’m doing or working on just to appease others.

Other than Zimmy… 😍 Which I believe those who supported the relationship deserve to see the natural progression of due to genuine love for us… I do still believe in sharing what I want/when I want to.

Now!

Ppl keep saying…

Where are the brand deals!!!!?????

THE BRAND DEALS

As you all know since I discuss everything with you guys…

Lol!

The Brand Deals did not show up at my doorstep as others may have wanted or in the timing others may have wanted.

But the fact of the matter is that I am indeed making money.

😌

Outside of having some big money deals lined up for me to advertise for upcoming brands…

I have things outside of social media that I make money from.

A brand deal for an influencer is the equivalent of a corporate job OFF social media.

Meaning you still have a boss who can decide when to terminate your contract.

Your paycheck is still in the hands of someone “above” you.

Would I have LOVED to immediately receive mega brand deals directly coming off the island?

1000%

Who wouldn’t?

But only to use that money to further ZC 🗣

NOT to appease others & prove that I am indeed working.

I am very focused on my OWN brand & building THAT legacy.

Which takes time & dedication.

When I tweeted I had bigger fish to fry just yesterday, I meant that.

The things that I truly care about achieving the MOST (ie. Booking A list films, transcending this planet through Gods love/healing others) & am currently working on are not things I can advertise about every day.

Though I am pleased for the brand deals ZC Nation & the public will see I am embarking on, as it will give them excitement that things are happening…

That is NOT what drives me.

I know who I am & what I’m up to.

I don’t hate on nobody & I definitely don’t WAIT on nobody.

So if you don’t see brand deals, all you’ve got to know is Z is definitely up to more than what meets the eye.

My spirituality and what I’ve learned over the years is the blueprint I follow for myself.

So I think hearing people compare me to my Love Island counterparts or anyone else for that matter is  simply ludicrous.

I understand that when two or more things/ppl are in close proximity of each other & seemingly hailing from the “same category”, we as humans are forced to compare the two.

It happens.

And that’s fine.

But for us to believe what our minds may come up with without knowing the full facts on each subject being compared is also…

The deals that some people take don’t bring in half as much 💰 as some of my financial endeavors (known & unknown) to the public.

I share a lot but I don’t share EVERY thing.

Including my finances.

That’s just tacky.

So the fact that social media really has become the pinnacle for how a lot of people gage my success & the success of others is alarming 🚨

And a testament to why there is so much unhappiness looming in our souls.

Bc we think social media is ALL REAL & indicative of success.

If we don’t see it, then it’s not happening.

If we see it, then it IS all it appears to be.

And this is SO incorrect.

THE REAL

The real truth is that I know plenty of people who post 24/7 regarding what they’re “up to” on socials & when I talk to them about it, they tell me the TRUTH about the matter.

And 9/10 it’s not HALF as glamorous as I or anyone else may have thought.

All that glitters isn’t gold ✨

And all that doesn’t glitter isn’t shit.

In this day & age one can make ANYTHING look good 👀

Look at the abundance of apps available for changing the whole aesthetic of a picture or video.

I mean there’s so many things that are simply not real.

And I feel we are so wrapped up in the look of it all that we then cannot seem to make sense of why we don’t feel good on the inside.

I am so invested in what I feel on the inside.

Though it can get to me at times what the public or reporters think of my life’s circumstances…

I internally couldn’t care less.

Bc I’m making money & I’m happy.

I know my family is pleased with me, I’m pleased with me… & most importantly God is pleased with me.

I care more about the fact that I know this is precisely what is affecting the mental health of so many people I care about.

So I write all of this simply to say that do not let the assumption of others on your life dictate what you feel about yourself or affect you in ways that make you think you need to do/portray or be anything more than what you already are.

It should only ever be about YOU.

You know the truth.

You know who you are.

And as long as you’re doing what makes you happy… stay on that journey.

I know it may seem that I am indeed bothered by what I may have heard about me out there but it is more so being bothered by the fact that I have realized that this is exactly why the majority of our mental health as a collective is suffering in this day & age.

So I’m always passionate in my writing by using myself as an example in order to relay the message I really want to get across out to those I want to help the most.

It’s actually a blessing that I get to use a very current & real experience I’m dealing with to explain my sentiment on the toll social media perception has taken on our generation.

*I’ll leave you here with these 3 quotes from the Bible that resonate with me beyond measure…*

Romans 12:2

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

1 John 2:15

Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him.

Galatians 1:10 

Am I saying this now to win the approval of people or God? Am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be Christ’s servant.

I do not live to please or to appease man.

I live & move to appease God.

Which in turn furthers me in completing the mission I know I was placed here on Earth to do.

Love you so much ZC NATION!

God bless you my angels.

My true Aces.

Forever & Always x

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Confidentially,

Baby Z