Good topic Zeta! God sometimes give you what you need not what you want. I feel like that’s what happened in my case when I met my husband before marriage he came to me introduced himself and he was a spiritual person like me he was very kind but he was not my type . He was handsome just not what I was use to I actually gave him one number wrong then I felt bad and call back and gave his cousin the right number. He ask me was “I trying to play him “ I said no! I was just scared I was only 20 at the time . But he was so sweet so I went o…
I think the whole purpose of love is when you know you know and that’s why we get so heart broken if it doesn’t work out because we initially had that gut feeling that this person was the one. And I’ve also been in that position where the chemistry is great, but why lead him on if I know this is not my person. Like that quote says, You are the greatest project you’ll ever work on. So why should I settle for less when I know I deserve more when it comes to love! And I’m glad you’re not settling for just anyone Zeta because you know your worth 🖤
Love the inspirational quote, "You are the greatest project....reset, restart, refocus..." so true and very much a necessity from time to time. I spent the week doing just that reset, restart and refocus. Being the best me and at peace will allow me to effectively be in the many spaces/roles l hold these days and be ready to let others in. Which brings me to your question; l think love is a combination of both a knowing and taking you by surprise. Love finds you when it's time, at least that is what l am holding onto to. Once you are open, the and ready to receive anything is possible. I am no expert on lov…
I have so many thoughts on love. I have been married, divorced, had a serious boyfriend, had children with him, and been left. For the longest time, I allowed myself to be used and abused(mentally and emotionally, not physically)to get the love I thought I deserved. See, that's the thing about love. If you feel that you don't deserve it, you seek the wrong partners. And that is what I did. Now, I feel different about love.
I totally think you will know it in your heart if you can intimate with a guy. Friends can make us feel good and flirt with us. Friends can also love us. But the love you have for them doesn't convert to romanti…
As mentioned above, Love can take you by surprise. It’s happened a different stages of my life but I’ve had 2 cases where I didn’t realize it was love until it was too late. I loved everything about these men. I just couldn’t see it intimately.
I don’t want to bore you with details so long story short, I feel like I missed my chance and I’m ok with that.
You’re still young and beautiful and it will happen for you. When you least expect it and when it does hang onto it and don’t let go 🩷🩷
Good topic Zeta! God sometimes give you what you need not what you want. I feel like that’s what happened in my case when I met my husband before marriage he came to me introduced himself and he was a spiritual person like me he was very kind but he was not my type . He was handsome just not what I was use to I actually gave him one number wrong then I felt bad and call back and gave his cousin the right number. He ask me was “I trying to play him “ I said no! I was just scared I was only 20 at the time . But he was so sweet so I went o…
I think the whole purpose of love is when you know you know and that’s why we get so heart broken if it doesn’t work out because we initially had that gut feeling that this person was the one. And I’ve also been in that position where the chemistry is great, but why lead him on if I know this is not my person. Like that quote says, You are the greatest project you’ll ever work on. So why should I settle for less when I know I deserve more when it comes to love! And I’m glad you’re not settling for just anyone Zeta because you know your worth 🖤
Hey Zeta and all,
Love the inspirational quote, "You are the greatest project....reset, restart, refocus..." so true and very much a necessity from time to time. I spent the week doing just that reset, restart and refocus. Being the best me and at peace will allow me to effectively be in the many spaces/roles l hold these days and be ready to let others in. Which brings me to your question; l think love is a combination of both a knowing and taking you by surprise. Love finds you when it's time, at least that is what l am holding onto to. Once you are open, the and ready to receive anything is possible. I am no expert on lov…
I have so many thoughts on love. I have been married, divorced, had a serious boyfriend, had children with him, and been left. For the longest time, I allowed myself to be used and abused(mentally and emotionally, not physically)to get the love I thought I deserved. See, that's the thing about love. If you feel that you don't deserve it, you seek the wrong partners. And that is what I did. Now, I feel different about love.
I totally think you will know it in your heart if you can intimate with a guy. Friends can make us feel good and flirt with us. Friends can also love us. But the love you have for them doesn't convert to romanti…
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As mentioned above, Love can take you by surprise. It’s happened a different stages of my life but I’ve had 2 cases where I didn’t realize it was love until it was too late. I loved everything about these men. I just couldn’t see it intimately.
I don’t want to bore you with details so long story short, I feel like I missed my chance and I’m ok with that.
You’re still young and beautiful and it will happen for you. When you least expect it and when it does hang onto it and don’t let go 🩷🩷