Another great topic. Agreed, women can't do everything even though we are capable. I like chivalry and at some point l want to be pampered and in return will do the same for the man in my life. Zeta, l think having your food covered as a non negotiable is part of what you enjoy/need from your partner and in turn l am sure there are things you are doing for the other in a relationship that are non negotiables for that person. I describe Relationships as a dance and both have to move together in just the right way to make the dance (relationship) magic. This is my analogy. Both men and women have …
I agree that a man should always pay for a woman’s meal. It’s more of out of respect in my opinion, but at the same time, I just think that it’s a new era where men think that everything should be split in half. And also a lot of women these days are willing to pay for the bill which makes us women who don’t want to pay look bad. Until they find out later on that the same man they’re paying for is no good. Also, I don’t think that if a man doesn’t pay for dinner it means that he’s not into you, it could just mean that he really doesn’t have the means to provide. However, I…
I'm a literal believer in scripture, and I see how the world has changed. I totally feel as you Zeta, a man SHOULD absolutely pay for meals on dates. Unless disabled, lengthy unemployment is NOT attractive or acceptable. And, I can't relate to women not supporting one another with encouragement and love. LOVE DREW ME TO YOU ZETA! To all, be wonderfully blessed.
You smashed it, Baby Z. I really love this topic. So, I want to start with your expectation of the man footing the bill when you are out. I get that! It isn't how I feel, but I get it. It means to you that you are worth it. It's called gift giving, and it is a love language. It may be one of your minor ones, but it is important to you. As for being a girls girl, that is a wonderful thing. It shows your love for us all.
I am going through some things with my 13 year old who is having fainting spells. So, from a parents perspective, it can be very scary with a health…
Hello Zeta and all,
Another great topic. Agreed, women can't do everything even though we are capable. I like chivalry and at some point l want to be pampered and in return will do the same for the man in my life. Zeta, l think having your food covered as a non negotiable is part of what you enjoy/need from your partner and in turn l am sure there are things you are doing for the other in a relationship that are non negotiables for that person. I describe Relationships as a dance and both have to move together in just the right way to make the dance (relationship) magic. This is my analogy. Both men and women have …
I agree that a man should always pay for a woman’s meal. It’s more of out of respect in my opinion, but at the same time, I just think that it’s a new era where men think that everything should be split in half. And also a lot of women these days are willing to pay for the bill which makes us women who don’t want to pay look bad. Until they find out later on that the same man they’re paying for is no good. Also, I don’t think that if a man doesn’t pay for dinner it means that he’s not into you, it could just mean that he really doesn’t have the means to provide. However, I…
I'm a literal believer in scripture, and I see how the world has changed. I totally feel as you Zeta, a man SHOULD absolutely pay for meals on dates. Unless disabled, lengthy unemployment is NOT attractive or acceptable. And, I can't relate to women not supporting one another with encouragement and love. LOVE DREW ME TO YOU ZETA! To all, be wonderfully blessed.
You smashed it, Baby Z. I really love this topic. So, I want to start with your expectation of the man footing the bill when you are out. I get that! It isn't how I feel, but I get it. It means to you that you are worth it. It's called gift giving, and it is a love language. It may be one of your minor ones, but it is important to you. As for being a girls girl, that is a wonderful thing. It shows your love for us all.
I am going through some things with my 13 year old who is having fainting spells. So, from a parents perspective, it can be very scary with a health…