WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME?
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Honestly, I don’t think it‘s a ‘when you know, you know‘ sort of situation. I’ve always heard you will never be ready so there isn’t ever a “right time.” But for me: When in college/grad school, I had several interviews that I knew questions about my future plans, where I saw myself in 5-10 yrs, etc. would come up. As I reflected on where I really saw myself, not one inkling of my thoughts veered towards getting married & having children. Being raised in the south, I feel that often times women are raised to get married & have babies ASAP…. Not this girl. I had goals. I had dreams. Once those years passed & those goals & dreams wer…
Hey Zee and zee fam!! Love love this read….. sorry for the long post
I am a middle child from a family of 7 kids, with a twin sister. I’m 37 , and when I read this I truly understood your thought process. My siblings have kids, and to narrow it down my twin sister does. She had her first born at 30……Me? Still single and until God brings me the right partner to settle down with and build a family. Do I want and crave for kids? Absolutely. But I am not willing to succumb to this feeling until I find the right person and timing.
Meanwhile I’m finishing my pilot studies on a part time basis while being…
Hello Zeta and ZC Nation, I don’t think there is a perfect age to have children. I got to a point in my life where I just knew. I just felt ready to become a mother and I just started to pray in it. I had my son at 30 and it was the right time for me. It was an absolute blessing. Do not feel pressured or rushed because it’s a commitment for real! Just pray to God about it and you will find peace and resolve.
Hey Zeta you aim to please, truly amazing. Firstly I passed the challenge after a do over the 2nd day and secondly in response to when is the right time for kids, Z we are both Geminis and as you would say your gut don't lie, pray about it and u will get your answer. I know nowadays people are having babies at all ages but I say do it in your prime don't wait till arthritis and all kind of ailments set in, do it when u are fit and active and if you want a Gemini baby link me and I will share the technique to make it happen.
Another great blog! I always use to think that it’s better to have children by 30-35. Now I respect the fact that there really isn’t an age that I need to have children by. When God says determines it’s your time to bring a new life into this world, it will surely happen and be such a blessing. I do feel it’s important to have children with the right person, who share similar or almost the same values as you when it comes to raising a child. Give all of your cares and concerns to God; He’ll always lead you on the right path. 🙏🏾❤️